Self Improvement

     As we might have already noticed it for a countless number of times, almost any directory has a self-improvement category. Many people love to read articles and books on how to improve themselves. I believe there are two main reasons for all the people to read all the material related to the self-improvement subject.

     The first reason is to satisfy one's conscience by studying of such a material to give one a feeling that he or she "tries to be better" and "wants to improve his or her character". And even though these people do not really want to improve themselves neither change their life to be more useful for others, they at least confuse themselves by pretending of such a good endeavor that they do not really possess. For I am convinced that some people are almost afraid to know the truth of a real self-improvement.

     The second reason is that these people really try to improve themselves, but as a matter of fact, most of them do not really know how to do that. That is why they search advices in articles, books and informational web sites, which would help them to work on that. However, I believe that only a minority of these writings about self-improvement will give the reader a really good guidance how to improve his or her character and behavior.

     As many old mystics taught us, all the events that are going on in this world are caused by opposites. There is always an opposite to everything - good and bad luck, birth and death, love and hate, day and night, pleasure and pain, health and illness and so on. If we really want to improve ourselves, first of first we must understand what the real self-improvement really is.

     In view of the opposites, every opposite forces it's own opposite to occur (as soon as someone became rich, a poor person must appear in the world to balance his or her being rich). We all people are one whole and existence of each one of us must be balanced by the existence of all the other. We should avoid not only all the negative extremes in our living but also all the extremes as such. Never forget that any extreme forces it's opposite to come to existence.

     The only self improvement worth working on ourselves is a help to those who suffer most of all! And who are these most suffering ones? Those who have the biggest pain, the most intensive negative feelings inside of them. As we know well, there are illnesses that cannot be healed, there are accidents the consequences of which cannot be restored back and there are the poor that cannot earn money to live. So what we can do about it?

     Illnesses that cannot be healed can be solved by merciful euthanasia (after the death, the soul will obtain a new body), accidents with nonrestorable consequences can partially be atoned by the increasement of the affected one's happiness by other people who will support him or her, the poverty of the poor can be atoned by rich people who will give them money to enable them to live.

     Let nobody be too happy and then nobody will have to suffer too much instead of him! And that is the core of the true self-improvement: to sacrifice a part of one's own happiness to prevent any extreme unhappiness of other people. Are you wealthy? Give the poor your money! Are you too happy? Give the unhappy a part of your happiness!

     Souls use to reincarnate, happiness and unhappiness alternate and therefore the unhappiness of any other human being can become your own unhappiness one day, so change the world in such a way to help all the excessively suffering ones. If there is no excessive suffering on the world, neither your soul will have to suffer too much in the future lives of yours. Remember that and do that both for other people and for you alone. Help them all to help yourself!

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